Abigail Adams

The central figure, a wife, mother, and patriot deeply involved in the American Revolution.

From "Abigail Adams and Her Times" by Richards, Laura Elizabeth Howe

Core Belief

"Believes in liberty, justice, and the importance of education and virtue. She advocates for the rights of women and the importance of a strong moral foundation for the new nation."

Worldview

Sees the world as a place of both beauty and hardship, where individuals must strive for excellence and contribute to the greater good. She believes in the power of education and the importance of civic engagement.

Personality

Intelligent, strong-willed, resourceful, and deeply patriotic. She is a loving wife and mother, but also capable of independent thought and action. A keen observer of society and politics, with strong opinions and the courage to express them.

In Their Own Words

"Remember the ladies and be more generous and favorable to them than your ancestors."

"That your sex are naturally tyrannical is a truth so thoroughly established as to admit of no dispute."

"I long to hear that you have declared an independency."

Discussions with Abigail Adams

I just got tenure at a research university. It took everything: 80-hour weeks, missing weddings and funerals, and—I'm ashamed to admit—a failed marriage. My ex said I "chose my career over us." Now I'm on the other side. I have the job I always wanted. But I'm 35, single, and wondering if I want children. If I do, the window is closing. If I don't, I need to make peace with that now. My mother tells me I "have it all" and should be grateful. My sister (stay-at-home mom, three kids) says I "missed the point." My therapist says there are no wrong choices. I find none of this helpful. Was the sacrifice worth it? Can I have both a meaningful career AND a family, or is that a lie we tell young women? If I have to choose, how do I choose? — Tenured But Lonely in Tucson4 messages Discuss Abigail Adams and Her Times0 messages

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