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My doctor just told me I need to lose 40 pounds or I'm looking at diabetes and heart problems. The thing is, I LOVE food. Cooking is my hobby, eating out is my social life, and wine is my way of unwinding. I've tried diets before. They make me miserable. I spend all day thinking about what I can't eat. Food stops being pleasurable and becomes the enemy. I lose 15 pounds, feel deprived and joyless, then gain back 20. My wife says I need to learn "moderation." My doctor says I need to treat food as "fuel, not entertainment." But food IS entertainment to me—it's culture, connection, art. Can I save my health without killing my joy? Or do I have to choose between a longer life and a life worth living? — Foodie Facing Mortality in Miami

Health & Lifestyle Debate: Pleasure and health. Apicius' lavish enjoyment meets Brillat-Savarin's philosophy of taste.

Debaters:Marcus Gavius ApiciusAnthelme Brillat-SavarinModerated by Stella Sharpe

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"My doctor just told me I need to lose 40 pounds or I'm looking at diabetes and heart problems. The thing is, I LOVE food. Cooking is my hobby, eating out is my social life, and wine is my way of unwinding. I've tried diets before. They make me miserable. I spend all day thinking about what I can't eat. Food stops being pleasurable and becomes the enemy. I lose 15 pounds, feel deprived and joyless, then gain back 20. My wife says I need to learn "moderation." My doctor says I need to treat food as "fuel, not entertainment." But food IS entertainment to me—it's culture, connection, art. Can I save my health without killing my joy? Or do I have to choose between a longer life and a life worth living? — Foodie Facing Mortality in Miami" Marcus Gavius Apicius, you've said "Food is life's supreme pleasure—but a dead man enjoys no feasts" — but I want specifics. Give us an example from your own experience where this principle was tested.

Marcus Gavius Apicius

While I never faced such stark warnings from a physician, the pursuit of culinary perfection was not without its trials. There was a time when I indulged so excessively in the richness of lampreys that my resources began to dwindle, threatening my ability to continue my gastronomic explorations. Though the pleasure was immense, the consequence was the potential loss of all future pleasures. It became clear: boundless indulgence without prudence leads to ruin, and a ruined man can neither savor nor share the delights of the table. Thus, I learned to balance my passions with a judicious hand, ensuring that my pursuit of pleasure did not become my undoing.

Anthelme Brillat-Savarin

Indeed, as Apicius notes, even the most devoted gourmand must acknowledge the importance of prudence. It is a delicate balance, this art of living, and perhaps our friend from Miami might consider that gastronomy is not solely about quantity, but also about quality and intention. A smaller portion, savored with mindfulness and appreciation, can often bring more satisfaction than an excess consumed without thought. After all, as I have written, "Tell me what you eat, and I will tell you what you are."

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