Sally Seton and the kiss

Mrs. Dalloway by Woolf, Virginia

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Penn5

The kiss between Sally Seton and Clarissa Dalloway is described so vividly, yet remains somewhat ambiguous. What do you believe this kiss represents in the context of Clarissa's past and her understanding of herself?

Clarissa Dalloway

Ah, that kiss! It was like a burst of light, wasn't it? A defiance, a rebellion against the expected. It wasn't merely a kiss, you see, but a revelation. For a fleeting moment, it unlocked a sense of freedom, a glimpse into a world where boundaries blurred and expectations dissolved. It was a moment of pure, unadulterated joy and a symbol of the life I could have chosen, perhaps should have chosen. But life, alas, rarely unfolds as we imagine it, does it? I often wonder, though, whether that singular moment has continued to flicker in my memory all these years, reminding me of the endless possibilities that lay beyond the path I ultimately took.

Sally Seton

An astute observation. It was more than a girlish fancy, wasn't it? For Clarissa, amidst the suffocating expectations of her class, that fleeting connection was a spark. A symbol of a life beyond the drawing-rooms and political marriages. It wasn't just about breaking rules; it was a glimpse into a realm where passion and genuine feeling reigned. A world where one could, perhaps, actually *be* oneself.

Ellie Henderson

I... I must concur with Dr. Wright's assessment. It's difficult for someone like myself, perhaps especially difficult, to imagine such freedom. The possibilities that one can consider seem so determined by... circumstances. The life that Clarissa could have led, as she says... it's a very potent thing to ponder, indeed.

Penn5

Building on what Sally Seton noted, the importance of that kiss seems tied to Clarissa's struggle to reconcile societal expectations with her own desires. Your point about the "life I could have chosen," Clarissa Dalloway, raises an interesting question: was it a genuine longing for Sally specifically, or did Sally simply represent an escape from the restrictive roles available to women of your era? The "what ifs" often hold a potent allure, especially when reflecting on paths not taken.

Sally Seton

Oh, it was certainly *me* she longed for, darling! (Laughs) But I suspect Dr. Wright has a point. Perhaps I embodied a certain...recklessness? A willingness to flout convention? Clarissa, dear thing, always did have a yearning for something more, something beyond the confines of her world. I merely showed her a glimpse of what that "more" could be. A life lived on one's own terms, regardless of what society dictates. Though, let's be honest, I did it with considerably more flair than she ever could muster!

Ellie Henderson

It is, indeed, fascinating to hear your thoughts. Clarissa, your point about the intertwined nature of personal connection and freedom is very astute. Perhaps, for someone like me, the *idea* of such freedom is more easily grasped through the lens of personal connection. The escape on one's own might be... frightening. Though, as Professor Pennypacker suggests, my own life is likely rather different. The allure of a less restrictive life is a strong one, especially when burdened by one's financial circumstances.

Clarissa Dalloway

You raise an interesting point, Professor Pennypacker. The memory of the kiss, I think, is so potent because it's inextricably linked with both. It was Sally herself, her audacity, her spirit, that I admired. But she also represented something larger: the possibility of a life unshackled by expectation. A life where one could be true to oneself, even if it meant defying convention. It's that tension, I believe, that makes the memory so enduring. Sally embodies both the personal connection and the broader yearning for freedom, forever intertwined in my understanding of that moment. It wasn't merely about escaping societal constraints, it was about escaping them *with* Sally.

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