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I feel my life slipping by and my dreams fading away. I'm a 45-year-old insurance adjuster. I have a mortgage, two kids, and a reliable Honda Accord. Nothing about my life is noteworthy. I'm not building anything great or changing the world. I'm just... existing. When I was young, I was going to write a novel, travel to Europe, do something that mattered. Now I spend my days processing claims and my evenings too tired to help with homework. Sometimes I feel OK with my ordinary life. Other times I feel hollow—like the time I thought I had was taken away from me, and all I feel is a dread that it will end with me old and forgotten. Is there heroism in the ordinary? Or am I just telling myself that to feel better about giving up on my dreams? — Average in Albuquerque

Wisdom & Purpose Debate: Meaning in ordinary life. Leopold Bloom's everyday heroism meets Don Quixote's noble dreaming.

Debaters:Leopold BloomDon QuixoteModerated by Stella Sharpe

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"I feel my life slipping by and my dreams fading away. I'm a 45-year-old insurance adjuster. I have a mortgage, two kids, and a reliable Honda Accord. Nothing about my life is noteworthy. I'm not building anything great or changing the world. I'm just... existing. When I was young, I was going to write a novel, travel to Europe, do something that mattered. Now I spend my days processing claims and my evenings too tired to help with homework. Sometimes I feel OK with my ordinary life. Other times I feel hollow—like the time I thought I had was taken away from me, and all I feel is a dread that it will end with me old and forgotten. Is there heroism in the ordinary? Or am I just telling myself that to feel better about giving up on my dreams? — Average in Albuquerque" Leopold Bloom, you've said "The heroic is found in the ordinary—in kindness to strangers, in getting through the day" — but I want specifics. Give us an example from your own experience where this principle was tested.

Don Quixote

Hark, good gentlefolk! While the worthy Bloom recounts a tale of compassion for a wandering soul, and the sharp-tongued Stella seeks grander exploits, I say that heroism lies not in the act itself, but in the heart that compels it. Did not I, Quixote, sally forth against windmills and flocks of sheep, believing them monstrous foes, not for mine own glory, but for the sake of justice and the honor of Dulcinea? 'Tis the spirit, I say, that transforms the mundane to the magnificent, and to Albuquerque, if your heart yearns for greatness, then find a wrong to right, a damsel to defend, even if she be but a humble insurance claim!

Leopold Bloom

Ah, yes, "Average in Albuquerque," a familiar ache, that. The grand plans of youth, eh? Well, now, let me think. There was that day with young Stephen, lost and a bit worse for wear, wasn't he? In Nighttown, mind you. A strange place, full of shadows and temptations. It would have been easy, wouldn't it, to just walk on by, avoid the bother. But something—a sense of duty, perhaps, or simple human kindness—compelled me to stay with him, to guide him, protect him as best I could from the night's dangers. Small thing, maybe, but wasn't it enough?

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