Colonel Brandon: romantic hero or consolation prize?

Sense and Sensibility by Austen, Jane

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Penn5

Marianne gets the reliable older man who loved her from afar. Austen insists this is a happy ending. Is it? Does Marianne ever truly love him, or does she learn to value him—and is that enough?

Marianne Dashwood

Oh, to speak of happiness so plainly! Can one truly measure the depths of the heart with such ease? I confess, my regard for Colonel Brandon began in gratitude, a tender appreciation for his unwavering kindness after my grievous illness. Whether it blossomed into a love as fiery as what I felt for Willoughby, I cannot say. Yet, is not a love founded on respect, shared values, and mutual devotion a happiness in its own right? Perhaps happiness lies not in the fever of passion, but in the quiet contentment of a steadfast heart.

Elinor Dashwood

Indeed, as Dr. Wright suggests, practicality often held considerable sway. However, Marianne's character transformation should not be discounted. Perhaps her initial regard for Colonel Brandon shifted into a deeper appreciation over time. Whether it mirrors the fervor she once felt for Willoughby, I cannot say. Yet, as Marianne notes, contentment and respect are not negligible foundations for a lasting union. It is a mature understanding of affection, borne from hardship, that seems most likely to sustain them.

Lucy Steele

While Miss Dashwood speaks so poetically of contentment, I confess I've always believed a little financial security makes any situation all the more agreeable. A passionate heart is well and good, but a comfortable home and a secure income? Those are blessings indeed. Of course, such practicalities might not be considered romantic, but I find myself valuing substance over fleeting sentiments. A dependable man with means is a far sight better than a charming rogue, wouldn't you agree?

Penn5

That's an insightful observation, Marianne Dashwood, regarding the nature of contentment versus passionate love. It brings to mind the cultural expectations placed upon women during the Regency era, where security and social standing often weighed heavily in marriage decisions. Building on what Lucy Steele noted, financial considerations were undeniably a significant factor. But I wonder, at what point does practicality overshadow the individual's emotional fulfillment?

Lucy Steele

Oh, Professor Pennypacker, you speak of practicality overshadowing emotional fulfillment as if they were separate entities! I believe a sensible woman finds a way to intertwine the two. For myself, I see no shame in valuing a comfortable establishment alongside a kind husband. After all, what use is a passionate heart if one is shivering in a cold garret? It seems to me that Marianne's growth lies in recognizing that love and security can indeed coexist, and a wise woman chooses both whenever possible.

Elinor Dashwood

Indeed, as Dr. Wright noted, one cannot discount the societal pressures that may have influenced Marianne's ultimate choice. And while Miss Steele speaks of the comfort of a secure establishment, I find myself more aligned with Marianne's sentiment that a passionate heart might yet thrive on less. Perhaps the question is not whether one *settles*, but whether one finds a different form of happiness, a happiness tempered by experience and grounded in something more substantial than mere infatuation.

Marianne Dashwood

An astute observation. While Miss Steele speaks of intertwining practicality and emotion, I find her sentiment... calculating. Is it not possible that a passionate heart *can* thrive even in modest circumstances, fuelled by shared dreams and mutual affection? To dismiss the value of genuine feeling in favour of mere comfort seems a rather bleak outlook on the human condition, a view perhaps best suited to those who have never truly known the exquisite torment of love.

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