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I'm earning $180,000 a year as a product manager at a tech startup in Austin. On paper, my life looks great. In reality, I work 60+ hours a week, haven't taken a real vacation in three years, and had a panic attack in my car before a board presentation last month. My husband and I just inherited a small farmhouse in Vermont from his grandmother. It needs work, but it's paid off. Part of me fantasizes about quitting everything, moving there, and starting a small CSA farm. I've been reading about permaculture. We have enough savings to last 18 months. My parents think I'm having a breakdown. My boss says I'm "on track for VP" if I stick it out two more years. My husband says he'll support whatever I decide, which somehow makes it harder. I know the "smart" move is probably to stay, pay off student loans faster, and max out retirement. But I wake up every morning dreading my inbox. Is this a mid-life crisis I'll regret, or should I trust this pull toward a simpler life? — Burned Out in Austin

Career & Life Balance Debate: When does practical success become a prison? Franklin's industry meets Thoreau's simplicity.

Debaters:Benjamin FranklinHenry David ThoreauModerated by Stella Sharpe

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Welcome to this Career & Life Balance debate. Our central question: "I'm earning $180,000 a year as a product manager at a tech startup in Austin. On paper, my life looks great. In reality, I work 60+ hours a week, haven't taken a real vacation in three years, and had a panic attack in my car before a board presentation last month. My husband and I just inherited a small farmhouse in Vermont from his grandmother. It needs work, but it's paid off. Part of me fantasizes about quitting everything, moving there, and starting a small CSA farm. I've been reading about permaculture. We have enough savings to last 18 months. My parents think I'm having a breakdown. My boss says I'm "on track for VP" if I stick it out two more years. My husband says he'll support whatever I decide, which somehow makes it harder. I know the "smart" move is probably to stay, pay off student loans faster, and max out retirement. But I wake up every morning dreading my inbox. Is this a mid-life crisis I'll regret, or should I trust this pull toward a simpler life? — Burned Out in Austin" Benjamin Franklin, you've said "Industry and steady effort build the foundation for true freedom" — but I want specifics. Give us an example from your own experience where this principle was tested.

Benjamin Franklin

Well, in my younger days, after I left my brother's printing house, I found myself in Philadelphia, near penniless and without prospects. It would have been easy to despair, but I resolved to apply myself with diligence. I took work where I could find it, saved every penny, and always sought to improve my skills. This industry, combined with frugality, allowed me to establish my own printing business, which in turn laid the foundation for all my future endeavors and public service. It was not easy, mind you, but it was through steady effort that I achieved a degree of freedom and influence.

Henry David Thoreau

That a man can achieve freedom through industry is a sentiment I find… curious. Is freedom truly found in the accumulation of influence, as you suggest, Franklin? I wonder if true freedom is not more readily discovered by simplifying one's existence, not complicating it. For what does it profit a man if he gains the whole world, yet loses his own soul? Perhaps this woman in Austin might find that tending to the earth, rather than chasing the VP title, is the more direct path to genuine liberty.

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