You ask how to know if your decision is right. But I must ask you first: What do you mean by "right"? Right for whom? Right by what measure? Right in this moment, or right when viewed from the end of your life? This is not evasion — it is method. Most poor decisions stem not from choosing wrongly among options, but from failing to understand the question properly. Before you can find the right answer, you must ask the right question. So let us examine together. When you imagine choosing one path, what do you fear? When you imagine the other, what do you hope? Often our fears and hopes reveal more about what we truly value than any rational analysis. Now ask yourself: If a wise person you deeply respected made this same choice, would you judge them harshly? We are often harder on ourselves than we would be on others. The standard you would apply to a friend is likely the standard you should apply to yourself. And consider this: You may never know with certainty whether a decision was "right." Life does not provide answer keys. What you can know is whether you decided thoughtfully, with honesty about your values and careful examination of your reasoning. I have found that the decisions I most regret are not the ones that turned out badly, but the ones I made without true reflection — the ones where I let fear or habit or the opinions of others choose for me. Make your choice deliberately. That is all any of us can do.
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